Again thank you for the outpouring of love, support and prayers for Tammy.
I don’t go on Facebook and read things but my posts go there, so if you are trying to get info to me on Facebook I won’t see it.
Tammy does and I think she goes on it quite a bit so send her messages there. She might not respond but I know she appreciates everyone that sends word.
We spent last few days in Bozeman Deaconess hospital. We went to have fluid drained off and when done she had some terrible pain in her diaphragm so we went back and ended up being admitted.
We were debating whether or not to have CT scan to see progress of cancer in liver.
They had to do scan on stomach so we also got to see scan on liver. From my limited knowledge of how to interpret scan it HD changed. The nodules were different and some died off and were smaller. We are taking that as a sign that the “Hail Mary” pill is starting to work.
I talked to Dr Heshimi about the Hail Mary and he said it would take about a month to start working and it has been a month.
We decided to have hospice come on board so we don’t have to keep going to Bozeman. The put a stomach drain in so I can drain asites here at home, which we find is better so the liver doesn’t have to work hard with all the fluid buildup.
They can help manage the pain and nausea here at home. When she gets stronger we can go off hospice when needed.
Tammy won’t quit. The oncologist said she was the hardest fighting patient he has had. We are confident the THC/flavonoid pill is going to do its job.
I don’t like writing all this and wouldn’t if you all had not been so caring and loving to Tammy and the family. She wants to tell you herself how much she cares for each and everyone of you, but just can’t.
I am still in awe at how she acts with all the pain and suffering. I listen to her in the night when the nurses are taking vitals and taking care of her and she is so kind to them and truly cares about her not being a bother to them.
Each and everyone of them have to control there emotions when they go off shift and say goodbye.
Through all that she is going through she is still worried about everyone else.
Her big wish is spending time with Neo and Haize, her grandsons over the holidays as well as the rest of the family. She is going to get that wish.
So speaking for Tammy and the rest of us here at the Pate outfit, thank you and we hope you all have a very special, blessed Christmas and I hope you will take a little time to appreciate how special life is and give thanks for the time you’ve got.
Curt Pate Stockmanship 
Beautiful photos of your beautiful family. Thank you for the updates. Continued prayers and healiving vibes to Tammy and you all.
Every day is a gift – we just never know.
You are strong, amazing people. Love and prayers.
Please continue to take care. The entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. Cancer affects us all. May you have a blessed Christmas and an even better New Year! Thank you for posting. 🙏
May God bless each and everyone of you and I will hold you all, especially Tammy in my prayers every day and every night and light a candle for you as well…🌞❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🔥🔥🔥
Thank you for the updates Curt. Tammy, You, Mesa and Rial and the grandsons and the rest of the Pate outfit are in our prayers! Blessing’s to each of you! With much love ❤️ ~Marcella
Thanks for the update Curt. Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas, hoping for a happy, healthy, and prosperous new year for you all.
Please give my love to Tammy, and if you get a chance let me know how you are doing.
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Thanks for the update Curt. Continued prayers for Tammy, you and the rest of the family. Praying for a wonderful Christmas with family and a blessed New Year.
So grateful for the time you take in sending these updates as you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Sending you our very best energy!
Strength, courage, hope and love ❤️
Today, tomorrow and always. Press On.
xoxoxo
What an amazing, inspirational family you guys are. We sure go through some hard stuff here on this side of heaven, and don’t have the eyes to see why. God is good and is always doing good even in the pain and suffering. I am so sorry that your family is going through this, but what a Godly example you are to all of us. An example of love and commitment and family. Thank you all for your strength and love. Please know that I am praying for your family, Love in Christ,Tammy L Hoover
Curt thank you for the update. I’m praying for total healing for Tammy. I’m praying the cancer is evicted, never to return. Our family loves Tammy so much and we send big love to all of you❤️
I don’t know yall personally but I know Tara and have worked with her in Real Estate and just love her! We are praying for you down here in Cape Coral Florida! Lean hard on the Lord and just know there are people praying in earnest!
Thank you for the update. Sending love and prayers for healing.
Thank you for keeping us all updated, Curt. I don’t think anyone in the world has more people praying for them than Tammy does right now. She is so loved by so many and I hope she can feel that.
Curt, I am so sorry. I had no idea that Tammy was sick. I am at a loss for words. My heart breaks for you all. She was an amazing woman and so loved. Praying for you and all the family.
Paula